Well through a lot of phone calls, emails, discussion, and prayer, we have made our decision on which agency we are going to use. We have decided to go with Children's Home Society and Family Services. They are based in Saint Paul, MN. There were several great agencies to choose from but CHSFS just seemed right. They are very good about returning phone calls and emails. They have taken the time to answer any questions we have had. This whole process is so overwhelming it really puts us at ease knowing they will be there to guide us through it.
    It was a relief to have that small hurdle out of our way but since they do not have offices in this area we had to find a local agency to do the home study. We called several agencies and got some recommendations from friends. We have decided to go with New Beginnings Adoption and Family Services. They are based in Tupelo, MS and were also very helpful and quick to return phone calls.
     Now the not-so-fun part of filling out mounds of paperwork begins. If you ever thought the paperwork you fill out during a mortgage closing is ridiculous, try adopting. Both agencies have their own applications to fill out. In addition to the applications, we have medical and psych evaluations to complete and all kinds of background checks and child abuse registry paperwork to go through. The amount of information that we have to provide is daunting and leaves me second guessing whether I am healthy enough or competent to be a parent. Just kidding of course but only slightly. I know that it all serves a purpose and that purpose is to protect the children.
     Next week we have our first meeting with the social worker for our home study process. We are definitely nervous about that all though I am sure there is no reason that we should be. We are not really sure what to expect at this point but we are glad to begin the process. We know that the sooner we can get through the home study the sooner we can submit our dossier to the ICBF (the Colombia Family Welfare Institute). Then the wait begins.
     Thanks again to everyone for their continued support and encouragement. We couldn't have imagined how much support we would receive and we thank you for it.